It’s sometimes a test to access life, your growth.
Make the best of your moment since it is bound to become a memory someday. You can never go back .Just learn from the past in order to shape your present and future.
You will find most people in life who will laugh with you, spend time with you but they will end up being the ones cutting your roots. In other words will be backstabbing you.
We often waste time on those who are not willing to waste a minute on your growth. Good friends are like four clover leafs; hard to find but lucky to have.
Your mother’s side is just as snake in the grass as your father’s side.
We realize the value of things after we lose them. If there is no pain then there is no gain.
The life we are living right now may be someone else’s dream.
Whenever something bad happens to us, it’s easy for us to slip into one of the following behaviors:
Self-victimization. We ask ourselves “Why is this happening to me?
Why am I so unlucky? …
Reacting in anger. We lash back at the situation, or even people around us, for what’s happening. Self-blame. We make self-depreciating comments like “Why am I so stupid to have done that?”
“Only someone like myself can make such a dumb mistake.”
Slipping into depression. …
Dejection or giving up. …
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Thank you ….First, that evil does not come from God, nor can we blame God for all the evils in the world. Evil comes instead from Satan.
Second, that someday all evil will be banished. The vast spiritual conflict between Satan and God that has raged from the beginning of time will be over, and God will be triumphant. Someday all evil will be cast into everlasting fire.
Third that in the meantime, God can give us victory over evil. This doesn’t mean bad things will never happen to us—but even when they do, we can know God is with us, and He will give us strength to stand against evil.
Bad things may happen to well-intending people, making them wonder, “why do bad things keep happening to me?”
Some individuals believe that every action has a reaction or that occurrences happen for a reason.
To avoid cognitive dissonance, we must have someone or something to blame for “bad things.” He also stated there are no accidents in life.
This way of thinking may cause those who experience struggle to feel that the struggle was their fault when traumatic occurrences and stressors might occur for no reason or a reason out of your control.
Learning to handle stress and manage your emotions during tough times can be a turning point, helping you feel prepared and confident in facing adversity.
Bad things happen.
That’s a fact of life.
But when a bad thing happens to you, it’s natural to ask why.
And when more than one occurs within a short space of time, it can feel like the whole world is against you.
You wonder what you did to deserve this.
After all, you’re a good person. You treat people with respect, you help others when you can, and you try your best in the things that you do.
And still you’re left reeling at the unfortunate series of events that has befallen you.
Do you want to add a word or two?….
Let’s dig a little deeper and see if we can’t find an answer to your “why?”
Sometimes it can feel like the universe is conspiring against us.
Everyday events, like sleeping through an alarm to losing the car keys can set a negative tone for the rest of the day.
More catastrophic life events, like losing a loved one or going through a divorce, can send us into depression and make us feel like life is pointless.
It usually seems like stressful events and chaos happens all at once.
The fact of the matter is that bad things will inevitably happen to us if we live long enough.
How we respond when something stressful happens to us is largely dictated by our frame of mind.
If we think that we are immune to difficulties or engage in negative thought patterns and self-talk, we are likely to experience more hardship and stress.
But when we approach unpleasantness with a more optimistic frame of mind, we will find that we are better able to cope with the curve balls that life throws at us.
Your comments ….
I’m a good person, so how could this happen to me?” is a question so many of us ask ourselves when tragedy strikes. The reality is that bad things happen to everyone.
We live in a world filled with catastrophes. Just click on your favorite news website, and you’ll see a long list of stomach churning, tear jerking events. The problem with clinging to the mindset that you or someone you know doesn’t deserve to experience a certain painful event, that it’s unfair, and that it shouldn’t have happened, is that it increases suffering.
When Adversity Strikes, We Have Two Options: Accept What Is or Suffer
There is much confusion about “accepting what is.” Many caring, compassionate people confuse it with indifference. They contend, “That’s terrible. I don’t want to accept what is and sit back and do nothing.”
I agree. Accepting what is, in the context I’m describing, is not the same as throwing your arms in the air and doing nothing. In fact, I am a strong believer in taking action when you witness injustice or helping those in need.
When you’re confronted with circumstances that stir you into action, ask yourself, “Is there something I can do to improve the situation?” “Can I volunteer, write a check, or contribute my efforts in other ways?” In other words, is there a way you can do your part?
As you can see, my version of accepting what is has nothing to do with complacency.
The problem is that many people who want to make a difference in the world suffer because they are unable to quiet their minds after they’ve done their part. Accepting what is means aligning your actions with your values. And once you’ve taken action, you let go of the outcome.
When you continue to worry and set up expectations for a certain outcome that must happen, you are not accepting what is. As a result, you’ll suffer. The mental thoughts will stress you out, create anxiety or even make you physically sick.
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