Quitters are not Losers.

Quitters has nothing to do with appearance.

Financial success.

Relationship status.

Sexual activity.

The thing that leads to the common misconception is, a lot of the above mentioned are strong points of people not considered quitters.

Why, you may ask?

Well, what makes someone a quitter is usually personality traits that block him/her from reaching their true potential?

Again, that doesn’t mean you need to have any of the above in order to not count as a quitter , I am just saying that quitter traits will really sabotage your shot at all of these societal values.

Now, if a quitter is not categorized by these benchmarks, how can you spot one?

The Difference between Winners and Quitters

It’s a well-known fact that success in business is all about your mindset.

There are many ways to view this, but the difference between winners and losers can be boiled down to one word:

Attitude.

Winners have an optimistic outlook on life, while losers tend to see things as being difficult before they even start.

The secret is to find what you love doing and then do it with full attention and enthusiasm – anything less than that will lead you down the loser path!

Your mindset is a potent force that controls how you view life. Make sure that this lens doesn’t skew how you perceive life. So, you need to develop a winner’s mentality.

It boils down to the fact that winners win, and quitters lose. It’s really just that simple.

Winners focus on solutions; quitters focus on problems.

The more you think about how to fix things, the easier they are to solve.

Make a list of all your strengths. Think about what you’re good at and find ways to do those things better than anyone else can.

Focus on making yourself better every day, not trying to change other people or the world around you.

Learn how to separate the inner world and the external world. The quitters in life will allow external circumstances to control and influence their internal state of being.

However, the winners learn how to use their internal state to control and influence their external world.

This difference in directionality is a huge golden nugget.

Do you allow what someone said about you, social media, the news, etc. to trigger you?

Can the words from someone else’s mouth enter your ears, fire neurons in your brain that surges negative emotions, change your energy to hatred, and flip your entire mood?

You need to change that!

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Thank you ….  You need to think different than the majority. And create habits and routines that other people simply aren’t willing to adopt and live out.

Winners aren’t sheep. They are leaders. They think for themselves and they aren’t afraid to be wrong, critiqued or to stand alone.

Quitters are people who are looking for everyone to like them. They are too scared to stand up for themselves.

In order to be a winner, you need to be willing to be ostracized. I mean think about the people we admire most. They took a stand for something and were willing to put their reputation or even their life on the line for that belief.

Never worry about what people think about you. You are going to be judged no matter what. Might as well be judged doing so when you are doing the things that mean the most to you.

Otherwise you will get caught in the trap of trying to fit into a box. A box that people and society want you to fit in. You want to fit out.

It is not only a lot less energy draining. But it also gives you massive confidence and security in yourself. You essentially know thy self through this pillar of being a winner.

Because you think for yourself. You don’t let people think for you.

We live in a society where mediocre place trophies and participation awards are handed out. There is no damn incentive to win anymore! Mediocrity is rewarded.

But in order to be a winner, we can never be satisfied with this type of behavior. Like most people they will find joy out of this, getting a trophy for showing up.

But that is not how the winner and pro thinks. We need to not buy into this crap mentality.

We need to strive for the blue ribbon, the biggest trophy and the best accolade offered.

Put in all we can do reap this rewards. And be pissed the hell off if we don’t get them.

If we are simply OK with being rewarded for doing virtually nothing, we imprint mediocrity into our DNA.

And when this happens, we become mediocre in our relationships, in our work, with our kids and friends, in our financial life and take it to the grave with us.

Do you want to add a word or two…

Winners are always striving to be the best, do their best and show up with their best. This is how winning is done.

Anything less will lead to quitting. Both in life as well as within yourself and the internal struggle to keep you mediocre.

Override the need to be mediocre to get by. Replace it will excellent work ethic and the desire to be the rest.

Until this need is overridden and you become a champion in every area of your life.

You cannot become a winner if you are hanging out with losers.

This may even mean that you have to go at it alone for a while. But getting the losers out of your life is a must.

This can also mean getting the losing thoughts out of your head that have been instilled by hanging out with people who don’t want you to win.

Your Comments….

Winning doesn’t seem as enticing if we give ourselves the option of losing. Make losing not even an option.

Delete it from your verbal and mental vocabulary. Don’t even entertain thoughts about it. Think always about how you can win and get ahead.

Never thoughts that will hold you back or justify losing. This will create a strong mental world. Which it all starts and ends in the mind.

Your whole world is created in your mind.

You can create a winning mindset which will created a life full of winning. Or you can created a losing mindset which will bring failure and disappointment.

Learn to create a mental life that acts a shield to losing and lack thoughts.

A winner keeps growing, evolving and rising from the ashes. They don’t see their learning and growing done when they are finished with school.

Or done training for a new job. They see themselves as their greatest asset in which everything relies on them.

If they grow and continue their evolutionary process, they win. If not, they lose. We need to keep growing to keep winning.

You can’t stay the same and expect different results. In order to be your best, you need to always be striving to become your best.

How to win in life:

Work hard, complain less.

Listen more.

Try, learn, and grow.

Don’t let people tell you it can’t be done.

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