Are you tired of dealing with fake people?

I know I am. They only care about superficial attention and I never get to know them for who they are.

Fake people only respect those who have power and wealth.

Fake people are only interested in spending time with people who could benefit them in some way.

Therefore, when it comes to evaluating a person’s characteristics, a fake person will tend to look at how powerful or rich they are. They won’t care if they’re kind or genuine.

A sure-fire way to spot a fake person is if they’re constantly boasting and talking about their achievements.

Fake people thrive off superficial attention. They want to make sure everyone around them sees how great they are.

Fake people tend to be the peacock of the group, strutting around and talking themselves up.

They hate it when someone takes the limelight from them. They form such a high image of themselves that after a while they even start to believe it.

Insincerity: Fake nice people may appear polite and friendly, but their tone of voice, body language, or facial expressions may reveal a lack of genuine interest or concern.

Gossiping: Fake nice people may engage in gossip or speak negatively about others behind their backs, despite putting on a pleasant face in front of them.

Inconsistent behavior: Fake nice people may behave differently in private than they do in public, or may switch between being friendly and cold depending on who they are with.

Flattery: Fake nice people may use excessive flattery or compliments to gain favor or manipulate others, rather than expressing genuine admiration or appreciation.

Superficiality: Fake nice people may focus on superficial or materialistic topics, rather than engaging in deeper or more meaningful conversations.

Lack of empathy: Fake nice people may be unable or unwilling to empathize with others’ feelings or experiences, and may prioritize their own interests over others.

Disregard for boundaries: Fake nice people may ignore or dismiss others’ boundaries, such as by invading personal space or overstepping social norms.

Self-centeredness: Fake nice people may prioritize their own needs and desires over others’, and may become hostile or defensive if they feel their needs are not being met.

Insensitivity: Fake nice people may make insensitive comments or jokes, or may trivialize others’ problems or concerns.

Inauthenticity: Fake nice people may present a false image of themselves, either by exaggerating their accomplishments or interests or by hiding aspects of their true personality or beliefs.

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Thank you … They will make you feel like their prey. The more they win and the more authority that they have over you, the worse it is going to be for you in the long run.

So how can you overcome avoid giving away your energy to fake people?

The most effective way is to tap into your personal power.

You see, we all have an incredible amount of power and potential within us, but most of us never tap into it. We become bogged down in self-doubt and limiting beliefs. We stop doing what brings us true happiness.

You need to be cool and detached around people who are fake.

Now I know, I know. This can be easier said than done.

Sometimes they will walk all over you or treat you like you don’t exist.

But the bottom line is this:

The best way to deal with people who are fake is not to take what they do personally or assume that what they are doing has anything to do with you.

How can you learn to not take things personally?

Realize that their behavior is more about them, and has nothing to do with you.

If you know that some of the things they say are a lie or that their behavior is off, then don’t keep trying to figure it out.

You can’t take fake people at face value; you can never guess what someone else is going to do or say.

So if you know they’re fake, why would you let anything they say get to you?

Do you want to add a word or two?….

Sometimes you can’t avoid someone.

So if you have to interact with them, then keep your interactions as short and simple as possible.

Don’t get involved in a conversation; don’t engage in an argument.

Using your emotional energy on a fake person is a waste of time. You won’t change their mind and you’ll never know what they’re up to behind your back.

Simply let them know that you are not interested in what they have to say and that you have better things to do with your time than be around someone who is fake.

For example, if they start flirting, then make it clear that you are not interested in whatever it is they have to offer.

You don’t need to be overtly rude. Just make sure you’re polite while standing firm on what your boundaries are. Fake people will try to tease you into a conversation that’s not really about you.

Your comments ….

They will try to make you feel weak so that they can take advantage of you.

So make sure that when the time comes, you can say “No” and get out of there as quickly as possible. There’s nothing worse than being alone with a fake person who wants to get something out of you.

It should be fairly easy to make sure you never spend one-on-one time with them.

We tend to have control over who we go to a coffee shop with, and if you’re always in a group when you’re with a fake person, it should be easier to deal with them.

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