Don’t sell yourself short.
Start meeting people and expanding your horizon. New people can teach you many things if you choose to listen.
Settling for less in a relationship means you are comfortable with the little effort, the distant kind of warmth, the broken communication, basically the bare minimum. But why would you settle for the bare minimum, the crumbs, the pain that tags along with settling?
Once you have the attitude that you deserve the best in life, great things will come your way. You will eat the best foods, see the best places, and meet the best people.
There is a world half-full of guys out there. There is no limit in options so you should never feel like you are stuck in a relationship. In fact, life is so filled with possibilities women often sell themselves short because they don’t realize how much more is out there waiting for them.
Don’t settle for less than you deserve! That applies to everything in life. If you consider yourself a person of high value, which you should, then you should set a high standard for who you associate with. That could include friends, boyfriends, or co-workers.
Once you have set a standard for yourself, you can expect only the best from yourself and the people around you. This is the recipe for success: building a life of high quality and never settling for less.
Friends are a Dime a Dozen
We sometimes have the bias that our friends are the best possible friends. That is why we gravitated toward each other in the first place. But if you make an effort to branch out, you may find some hidden friendships waiting to be initiated.
Never expect to achieve perfection, but never give up in your pursuit of achieving the perfect life. If you set high standards for yourself, your achievements will be especially satisfactory and your rewards will be greater than the risks.
Once you have set a standard for yourself, you can expect only the best from yourself and the people around you. This is the recipe for success: building a life of high quality and never settling for less.
Having a best friend is ideal, but the reason why friends come and go is because it’s possible or even inevitable for you not to grow tired of seeing the same friends every day. You need variety in your life. Variety is the spice of life.
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In relationships, you can get caught up in the progress-defeating emotional baggage that is inevitable when settling for a relationship that you don’t truly deserve. Meanwhile, others reap the benefit of getting a lot more dating experience.
Embrace Change
Embracing change is a part of any optimistic person’s agenda. You can either accept change as inevitable or settle for less than you deserve. It’s your choice.
Oftentimes we have a bad habit of accepting things in our lives that aren’t necessarily good for us or are holding us back.
This is a trait of someone with low self-esteem and the people and things you associate with don’t often speak true of your character.
You must filter out inferior things from your life in order to make room for what’s truly great. That way you can enjoy the highest quality of life possible.
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Girls often tend to lower their standards and try to change guys in order to get them to act the way they want guys to act. This is manipulation and a lot of effort for nothing as most guys are stubborn in their ways. The way to handle this is to keep your options open.
How to Not Settle for Any Less than You Deserve
In order to be able to not settle for a guy, you have to control the relationship and you have to keep moving forward.
The one in control of the relationship holds all the cards and is the one that can either end it or speed it up.
When you control the pace of the relationship, you have established yourself as the one with value.
If you can remain emotionally unattached from the outcome of the relationship, you will practically have him eating out of your hand.
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Never settle for less when it comes to friendships. If it feels like a friend doesn’t act like a friend sometimes, it means you can do better for yourself.
You enjoy life by being cheerful and being cheerful attracts new friendships into your life.
If you look forward to the future, then it’s a never ending cycle of social growth. The moment you settle for what you have is the moment you decide to stop growing.
Different Friends Serve Different Purposes
Having a best friend is ideal, but the reason why friends come and go is because it’s possible or even inevitable for you not to grow tired of seeing the same friends every day.
You need variety in your life. Variety is the spice of life. That is why you should put yourself out there and never settle in your friendships.
The only way you will find quality friends is by meeting many people. Otherwise your standard will be stuck on whatever you settle for.
Most people love the mental image more than they desire to put in the work to get it. They are more in love with how the idea looks, than with the process of taking part in the actions that it requires to make the idea happen.
When it all boils down, it takes no effort on your part to fantasize about the life or the results we want but it takes 100% effort to make it happen.
If it takes up too much time and requires a sacrifice, most people won’t even make an attempt and they’ll even go out of their way to justify it by creating excuses, or what I like to call “crutches”.
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