Any man can love a thousand women, but a good man loves one woman a thousand ways.
If you’re wondering who falls in love faster, perhaps, it depends on your definition of love.
Just because the sparks fly and the butterflies flutter does not mean you have truly fallen in love — or, at least, into the kind of love that lasts a lifetime. You could be experiencing limerence or even simple lust.
In fact, it’s all just about hormones and other chemical reactions in the brain and body.
Every man needs a woman who can take care of him. A good woman who can make him feel like he is the only man in the world. A good lady can make a bad man good, but a bad lady can make a good man do wrong.
Every man needs a woman to be his backbone, his confidant and his friend.
Your woman is supposed to be your best friend, someone who believes in you even when you don’t believe in yourself, someone who sticks by your side through everything life throws at you; someone who loves you for no other reason than because she wants to love you, yes that’s a good woman and every man needs someone like that.
Good women go a long way in the development of any man.
So every man needs a good woman. Unfortunately, how to identify a good woman to walk alongside is often unclear. Now I don’t mean a pretty woman, or a just a good looking one alone but one who is also reliable, loyal and nice.
That’s it, a woman you can trust and smile from your heart to the world.
Everyone is at the mercy of one of Mother Nature’s most delightful and devastating little tricks.
Men may fall in love faster and harder and may even think its love at first sight, more often than women. This is because of their intense initial physical attraction to a woman.
Men also may say, “I love you” first, while women are still wondering, “Is he my soulmate?”
In fact, if a woman is immediately physically drawn to a man, it can be a red flag or a cautionary warning.
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Thank you …. This reaction is a clear sign that she is attracted to a fantasy of who he might be and not necessarily who he really is.
Although there’s a chance he might be the right one for her, she cannot know that yet.
As a “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” my observation of hundreds of dating couples, I can tell you there are clearly several stages of dating, where both men and women are assumed to be in love.
It’s always wise to go slowly and savor each and every step. The time it takes to truly experience unconditional love can be up to 18 months, based on science.
Although women are assumed to be more emotional than men, it’s actually men who report falling in love earlier and women at slower speed –means later.
For the most successful relationship, both partners need to be prepared to take the opportunity to move through the entire process and navigate the dating stages without skipping over any of them.
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Now that you know who falls in love faster attraction can be cultivated a healthy relationship.
We already know that love is, as they say, many splendored thing, but anyone who’s been in a long-term relationship is also aware the course of true love seldom smooth, no matter how great it is.
As happens with anything that develops over time, there are several stages of a relationships couples go through as they transition from their single lives as two individuals to a team choosing to make their lives one.
At some times, you may be sick to your stomach, but in a good way. At others, your libido may seem practically out of control. Sometimes you literally can’t get enough of that person and never want to be apart, and at others, you wonder if they’ll ever (finally) go away and give you some peace and quiet.
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The best parts of beginning to fall in love are the butterflies and infatuation. In some cases, infatuation can be a bad thing, but when you’re both in it to win it, it’s wonderful.
You can’t sleep, you can’t concentrate, and the most important thing in the world is getting to see that person again.
The infatuation stage also noted an obvious increase in their sex drive, meaning all you want to do is be in bed with your new love until the break of dawn.
However, this could be too much of a good thing, especially when your infatuation blinds you to reality.
Be sure to ground yourself in reality. Nobody is perfect — not you, nor your new partner. So, stop thinking of them as such.
Instead, see them for what they are: a flawed human being. This will help you distinguish between the people you think they are versus the person you should see as a whole.
The comfort stage is when things calm down in your body a bit, and you aren’t in a haze of adoration and devotion…Neurochemicals are released that turn up the volume in your heart rate and pleasure zones. In fact, the scientists say these feelings are on par with Class A drugs.
Because this is an “in between” stage, where the feelings of infatuation have worn off but you haven’t yet come to terms with whether or not your relationship has a future, remind yourself that a relationship like this isn’t sustainable.
See the loss of that fantasy high as the opportunity to get to know them more deeply, and for them to know you. Share your values, goals, and dreams, and see what you can build together. Focus on the things that work and explore together how you can bridge any significant differences.
Naturally, you will get to a point where you second-guess what’s going on. During the questioning stage, you start wondering if things are “right.” You begin to doubt if your relationship will last, or even if this person is a good match for you.
You start asking yourself if this is really what you want.
Can you see yourself with this person for the long haul?
Is it more serious than you expected?
Do you even have the potential for a long-term relationship that will last?
Are you compatible on more than a surface level?
The questioning stage isn’t about self-doubt as much as it’s about trying to figure out what’s right for you and your future. So, it’s essential to be on the same page as your partner.
Have a discussion about what you both want, if your values align in this way, and how you can tackle any issues that come up between you.
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